Sunday, February 13, 2011

Things that are ALWAYS in my fridge


I don't diet. I really don't even exercise (yoga, occasionally). People ask me all the time why I'm so skinny, and the answer mostly has to do with my genes, but I do try to keep my food intake healthy and balanced because I want to do fun things when I'm an old lady!

I hear people say things like "well you might as well eat what you want while you're young!" which is a philosophy that will ultimately cut short the good years when you still at least FEEL young. Some health issues and diseases are not preventable, but many of them are! And if you DO have health issues later in life, they will be lessened by smart eating habits when you're young.

Eating healthy doesn't mean eating boring either: it is colorful, flavorful, and filling! Eating healthy doesn't mean going hungry either: I eat til I'm full! And then I go for desert if I want!

It's all about BALANCE.

So here is a list of items I always try to keep in my fridge. One common element you will notice is that none of my "must haves" are animal products; no, I am not vegan or vegetarian, but I understand that while we are omnivores, our bodies function BEST on a mostly plant based diet. I still eat steak & chicken, but I try to limit my meaty-meals to less than 4 times per week.

Without further adieu, here we go:

Avocados

Avocados are nicknamed the miracle fruit for a reason: you can live on a strict diet of avocados and water and have a filling, nutritionally complete diet. They are extremely full of monounsaturated fat (or "good" fat), and can replace meat or fish as a source of high protein in your diet.
The other great thing is the flavor is very subtle, and can be used in many different types of recipes & dishes as a result (I've seen a recipe for an avocado shake!). Of course, there's guacamole, but my two favorite ways to eat it is in an avocado salad (diced or mashed, mixed with spinach, red onion, & tomatos with no dressing, just seasonings!) or in Mango-Avocado Salsa (diced mango, avocado, onion, tomato, diced peaches, a little orange juice, and seasonings like red pepper & garlic salt), which can served fresh over chicken or fish, used as a dip, or eaten with crackers as a snack.
Also if you have babies under 1 (like me), avocados make GREAT baby food. The subtle flavor usually agrees with most babies, and it can be easily mashed with a fork & ready to serve right away (I always add a tiny bit of orange or lemon juice to keep it from oxidizing & turning brown too quickly).


Baby Spinach Leaves
A rich source of iron, and more tasty & versatile than most other green-leafy foods, Spinach has an abundance of uses. I use spinach in almost EVERY meal I make! I add it to pasta sauce, use it as a base for salads, and find other creative ways to get it onto my plate daily. It can be wilted (microwave it for less than 30 seconds) and mixed with sour cream to create a dip (who doesn't love spinach dip??), added to stir fries, rice dishes, or served fresh on a sandwich.

Orange Juice
I still enjoy a cup of coffee every morning, but did you know a glass of orange juice will do the same job? The reason for this is it's high concentration of folic acid (aids brain function) and Vitamin B6 (this is also a great hangover cure, fyi). Additionally, orange juice is most well known for it's Vitamin C, which helps us absorb iron (found in that spinach!) and fight off common viruses like cold & flu! I make sure my daughter gets at least one 4oz bottle of OJ per day!

Whole Grain Foods
I don't claim to understand "no-carb diets" because we NEED carbs for energy! I can imagine myself feeling very slothy & exhausted if I cut out carbs. But there ARE such thing as "empty" carbs, and a large source of those "bad" or "empty" carbs come in the form of white bread, pasta, and rice. Bread, pasta and rice should be in your diet, they are staples! But only when they are WHOLE grain! If you buy wheat bread, you're still not cutting it; breads often are made with brown coloring or caramel to make it look like whole grain. Products that say they are "enriched" are also not as healthy as real, whole grain products. If you read ingredients list and there are more than one gain product listed, make sure the whole grain product is listed FIRST or it probably only contains a tiny amount of it! In addition to good carbs, whole grain foods are also another good natural source of protein!

Dark Chocolate

Dark Chocolate is made from plants, which means it has many of the same healthy benefits as other dark veggies (like spinach!). Dark Chocolate contains flavonoids (antioxidants) which protect the body from aging caused by free radicals (often attributed to the number one cause of death: heart disease). The extreme concentration of antioxidants makes dark chocolate VERY beneficial for you even in small portions (8x more than found in strawberries). It also can help reduce & relax high blood pressure and balance certain hormones.
In addition, it stimulates endorphin production (in the same way sex does) which gives a feeling of pleasure, contains serotonin which acts as an anti-depressant, and theobromine, caffeine and other substances which are stimulants.
I hope I don't have to say that none of the above applies to milk chocolate, right? I have heard complaints from those who prefer milk chocolate saying that dark chocolate tastes bitter to them (I honestly don't taste that, but to each his own), and a good solution might be to use dark chocolate in recipes like cookies! Most do not notice a difference when it's been baked into pasties that are already sweet.
Side note: some researchers say that washing down your dark chocolate with cow's milk will prevent your body from absorbing the antioxidants! Solution might be try Vanilla Soy Milk, its delish!


Red Wine
Red Wine is good in the same way dark chocolate is: its filled with antioxidants that are heart healthy. Not to sound like a broken record, but heart disease is the NUMBER ONE CAUSE of death, more than cancer, aids, and poverty.
The key here though is moderation; alcohol has been shown to be linked to weight gain because of it's empty calories, and also linked to an increased risk of cancer when taken more than the recommended limit (1 drink per day for women, 2 for men. A drink is considered 4oz for wine).
If I haven't frightened you off, you should know that baking or simmering red wine will evaporate the alcohol and leave you with the healthy parts! Try adding it to pasta sauce for flavoring, as a marinade for red meats, flavoring in stir fries and other combination dishes. Another great one is Red Wine Pasta, which involves boiling your almost-cooked pasta in red wine!



Yogurt
Yogurt is rich in protein, calcium, riboflavin, and vitamin B6 and B12. It's amazing nutritional benefits surpass those of regular milk! It aids in digestion and isn't as hard on those who are lactose intolerant as milk. I usually buy a big tub of plain yogurt, which is kinda tangy in its natural form. I like to add warmed honey to sweeten it, and throw in walnuts, berries, granola, fruit, even cereal! Yogurt can also be used when baking, try Yogurt Chocolate Chip Cookies, and substitute in dark chocolate and whole grain flour for a healthier alternative.

Water
Yes, it's an obvious one: WATER! Life on Earth could not exist without water, and neither can our bodies! We are made up of over 70% water, and yet an estimated 75% of Northern Americans are CHRONICALLY dehydrated!! Also, our feeling of thirst is so weak that it is often mistake for hunger. When you feel hungry between meals, try drinking a glass of water first. It will make you feel fuller & is a good way to remind yourself to drink water throughout the day. Also, juice, coffee & soda cause us to loose water, so up-ing your water intake and cutting down on other beverages would also be wise.



So that's it! This is personal list of things I feel are especially important and I always keep on hand and on my dinner plate. I am NOT a professional or a nutritionist, and this is not a weight loss plan of any sorts. When you eat healthy, it should be easier to loose weight (much to do with regulating your metabolism), and some exercise should be involved.

But again, I am no professional, I'm just a mom who tries to eat healthy for myself and my family. Alright, good talk, now all this talk about food is making me hungry, so time to make some dinner! :)

Mothers, Rejoice?


I've read a number of blogs and articles lately authored by mothers describing various bad or unfortunate experiences they had as new moms. They described painful breastfeeding experiences and strange disorders, ruined bodies and obsolete sex lives. They made becoming a new mom sound much more like cruel and unusual punishment than an exciting and rewarding experience.

I'll give it to them, parenthood isn't all peaches and cream. It's a huge adjustment, but I never had viewed it in quite the terms they had... I remember other moms giving me "advice" about how I could lie about what the doctor said after my 6-week check up so I could get out of having sex for a few more months... What??? Then there was those that told me how I was going to blow up and look like a beached whale and that I shouldn't feel bad if I couldn't get back into my jeans within the first year (or two!). After those there were others who would show me their saggy stretch marks and tell me they hoped I had remembered to take before pictures of when I still looked good in a bikini. Moms (especially those that didn't follow through) would tell me terrible, painful, and graphic stories about breastfeeding and how I might as well start saving for a boob job now. And EVERYBODY, regardless whether they were a parent themselves or not, loved to remind me that soon I wouldn't remember what it was like to get an uninterrupted night of sleep.

For the record, every single thing I was warned about so gravely never came to fruition. Nothing.

Somehow, all these popular mommy-horror-stories get lots of pats on the back from fellow moms, and moms who talk about their success stories (for example, like mom & super model Gisele Bundchen) or about the ease that they adapted to life as a mom was for them, they are heavily criticized! They are basically accused of making it all up and falsely romanticizing parenthood.

Why can't we just be happy for our fellow moms? Aren't we all sisters with the same cause? We may each have different methods, but we all love our children and what the best for them and our families, right? So, I wonder, why can we not rejoice when moms have a positive story about motherhood? Perhaps even look for value in them; maybe those moms did something that can be learned from! It doesn't mean they're better or superior women (motherhood is NOT a competition) but there is not one right way, and maybe another mom out there has a positive suggestion that could be useful!


At this point, I would like to take time to REJOICE in my own mothering successes. I have not had the chance to do that thus far unless confiding in my partner or my own mother without the risk of judgement, but I will be ashamed of my good fortune no more!

1)
What I was told - "Say goodbye to your sex life, but don't worry, you won't want it anyway!"

My experience - I picked right back up where I left off. Actually, it was probably better. Oh, and I even had a horrific 27 hour labor and some other details that are way TMI, but that really didn't throw a wet blanket in the romance department after 6 weeks was up.

2)
What I was told - "You're gonna get FAT. It's okay though, we all do, so eat whatever you want! And you have an excuse for at least one year post baby as well. But the stretch marks you'll be trying to cover up for a lifetime. "

My experience - I ate whenever I felt hungry, gained 40lbs while pregnant (which was the recommended amount for my size), and lost it without any special diet or exercise within 4 months of delivering my daughter. I attribute this to breastfeeding (burns an extra 500 calories per day), to good genes (also known as " good luck"), and having a child when I was young while my body can bounce back more easily. As far as stretch marks, I have a few hardly noticeable ones on my legs that don't bother me the least bit, and none anywhere else. And I did not slather my belly with cocoa butter to prevent them like some moms told me I should. Long story short, I'm comfortable with my body and looks exactly the same to me as it did pre-pregnancy. Maybe even better.

3)
What I was told - "Breastfeeding is difficult, painful, and will get in the way of you getting back to your 'normal' life."

My experience- There was a LITTLE bit of truth in this, but every good myth has some. The first two months were somewhat painful, especially when I got an infection in one of my breasts. I have fair skin and which is more sensitive and it took longer for my skin to no longer be irritated by it. I coped with some home remedies (I even tried the cabbage leaves trick, it actually works), and some store bought soothers. Once I got past the initial first phase, it's been amazing. I would go through that first 2 months again TWICE if I had to, it was well worth it. There is a bond between you and your baby that goes beyond description. Plus the added connivence that I never have to take time to prepare a bottle or pay for an expensive tin of powdered formula doesn't hurt either. My daughter is almost to the point I have to start thinking about weening her soon, and honestly feel depressed at the very thought of it. It's obvious she loves it, and I love it too!

4)
What I was told - "Get ready for endless sleepless nights. Bags under your eyes will soon be a permanent fixture on your face."

My experience - My daughter would wake up twice at night until she was 2 weeks old to eat (which with breastfeeding, I could just lay right back down and rest my eyes until she was finished). After that, she miraculously started sleeping through the night, from about 10pm to 8am. Hallelujah! Nowadays she sleeps from 8pm to 8am (mommy is in parent heaven)!
I would like to point out here that I took my own advice and learned something from a fellow mom. While visiting a friend, I noted how easy her kids went down for naps and bed time. She would leave the room and be back minutes later, no cries or complaints from her baby! When I asked her about it, she told me it was the result of training them that when its time to sleep, they put themselves to sleep. Yes, they cry for awhile in the beginning, but they're smart and they learn. (These are tricks learned and perfected from the book "Baby Wise" by Gary Ezzo & Robert Buknam, MD).
These days my daughter's bed/nap time routine is simple: I turn on her Dave Matthews Band lullabies, hold her close for a few minutes to calm and relax her, then give her kiss & put her in her crib and close the door! She usual yells at me for about 5 or 10 seconds after I close the door, but then plays with her stuffed hippo and glow worm, and babbles to herself until she drifts off. Money!


So to continue with my streak of honesty here, parenthood so far is more of a breeze and definitely not a hassle. I honestly enjoy it much more than I expected, especially after all the terrifying stories I kept hearing! Yes, I had some plain old good luck involved, but I shouldn't have to feel embarrassed or apologetic for having a good experience. Therefore I won't be, I'm blatantly bragging about how much I am loving every minute of it!

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Christmas Eve

7am Christmas Morning


Reagan Belle's first Christmas

Despite our car battery dying suddenly 2 days before our departure, plus the alternator going out, an oil leak, not to mention being flat broke: we made it to The Farm for Christmas! That's a 7 hour total drive to my grandparent's ranch to the sticks in Missouri. On our way we made stops at other relatives to break up the trip, and even to ditch our unlucky SUV in place of a smaller (but working) vehicle.

We had our discouraged moments and feelings of doubt about ever arriving at our destination... but call it a Christmas miracle, it was one of my favorite Christmas's to date!

I made gift baskets for our relative's families with homemade cookies and candy, homemade cranberry jam, a personalized ornament designed and made by moi, and a few choice accessories for the girls. Everybody seemed happy with their presents! :) I was pretty happy with ours too, we got a new 52 piece set of dishes and kitchenware, a bathroom rug, an electric mixer, a super fuzzy blanket, and of course lots of cute outfits and toys for Reagan!

The coolest thing we came home with though was some 3D artwork my grandma had made years ago that we found in storage while exploring her basement!

It's a spider web made of one long continuous thread. I painted the frame black after we got home to make it pop more on the wall in our dining room (see left). We are in love with it!

We built a bonfire and told stories outside in the cold, drank too much champagne/beer/wine than necessary, had some heated disagreements while playing spades/hearts/rummy, investigated and researched antiques around the house (some dated back to the early 1800s and had Free Mason symbols on them), and ate some AMAZING food. It was well worth the initial difficulties!

Website update:

Since I got so much great feedback about the gift baskets I made for everyone, I'm thinking of adding that on MommyWantsOnline.com. Personalized and custom baskets: for whoever and for whatever! In an effort to network with people around me, maybe I'll have the option to include items made by others in my community (like for example, I just tried some fabulous locally made wine), and then they can help cross market me as well.

Right now the site has all of the frame-work finished. The truth is I need to get some products together! :D And I need to be crankin' out some more of these blogs for your reading pleasure! Plus I have a few new recipes that need to go up soon, including apple crisps and apple taffy salad (grandma's recipe)!


Tomorrow is the last day of 2010, good luck to everyone in the new year!

Monday, November 22, 2010

Merry Christmas





Preview of what I'm working on for the ladies in my family! ^ It's a mixture of flower pins, hair ties, hair clips & a button-cluster headband. I've decided I am too broke to spend a fortune on everyone this year, but I want to give everybody something special! What gift could be more special than one handmade with that person in mind? (And would could be cheaper??). Can't go into too much detail about WHO these gifts are intended for.. :D But they were all pretty easy to make, just took a few dabs of hot glue and a couple of stitches.

In addition to these, I am going to be making some edible gifts as well! Including jam, chocolates, and holiday cookies (all made by muah). As far as presentation, I've decided I'm going to first check out Good Will and see what kind of containers/baskets/jars/ect they have that would be more unique than a batch of uniform containers from Hobby Lobby or Walmart. Now SHHHHHHH don't tell anybody what I'm doing!!!

Now time to make dinner :)

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Thanksgiving is sneaking up on me... yikes only 4 more days left before I host my FIRST Thanksgiving dinner at MY house! Ahhhh!! Ok I'm fine... really I'm not nervous... but I have been practicing my sidedishes all week with dinner (just in case).

Thought I'd share in my experiments! I have some other dishes coming up in future blogs, like cranberry jam, pear jam, and some holiday inspired cookies as well!

Tonight after our left over dinner I decided to do some tests on some Thanksgiving bread choices. I came up with two different recipes, and I really like them equally, so I might make them both! :P


Cinnamon-Nutmeg Beer Biscuits



First one was inspired by the beer biscuits I used to see my grandmother make in her kitchen on the farm (laugh it up), which were always very rich & crumbly. This made about 5 or 6, here's what I did:

Preheat oven to 450

Aprox. 1 & 1/2 cups all-purpose mix
1/3 cup brown sugar
1 Tblsp ground cinnamon
1/2 Tblsp ground nutmeg
Aprox. 1/2 of a 12oz. bottle of the beer of your choice

Mix first four ingredients together before adding beer. Mix together til googey dough forms. Drop heaping spoonfuls onto a non-stick baking sheet 2in apart, and lightly dust tops with another pinch of cinnamon & nutmeg. Bake for 8-10 minutes.

Serve hot with butter or with whipped cream cheese (bonus if it's flavored as well with cinnamon & walnuts!). These would be good as a flavor balanced side dish, little bit of sweet to go with your spicy and salty dishes.


Shortbread and Hot Pear Topping



This recipe was sort of thought up while my batch of beer biscuits were in the oven. This recipe only makes about 8 short cakes.
Shortcakes:

Preheat 450

2 cups all-purpose mix
3 Tblsp sugar
3 Tblsp melted butter
1/3 milk

Mix together all ingredients. Drop heaping spoon fulls of dough onto baking sheet, and bake for 9 or 10 minutes (or until lightly golden brown on top).

Meanwhile....

Hot Pear Topping

2 sliced ripe pears, loosely chopped (or get creative, what other fruits in your kitchen might be good?)
1 & 1/2 Tblsp cinnamon
1 & 1/2 Tblsp nutmeg
3-4 Tblsp butter

First boil chopped pears on the stove for a few minutes, until they are soft. Drain the pears, and leave in the pot, returning to heat. Quickly add remainder of ingredients, and simmer for several minutes.

When short bread is baked and your hot pear topping (or other fruit topping! :) has been simmering for a few minutes, serve short cakes with a helping of your hot pear topping poured over top! This would be a great Thanksgiving day breakfast pastry to go with your coffee that won't stretch your stomach out too soon! Or if you're too full for pumpkin pie, this would be great after dinner as well (of course, with more coffee!!!).


Besides my cooking adventures today, I also began making my first Christmas gifts for relatives this year! I've decided I am not buying gifts for anyone this year... I'm MAKING them! This will include some edibles like Christmas chocolates, holiday cookies, and seasonal jams.... Today I made some accessories for my female relatives, I'll try to get some pictures up tomorrow. Maybe... I just wouldn't want their intended recipients to see them!! I'll consider it..


PS Leave me a comment if you have ideas or you try new things with these recipes! :)

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

'Mommyhood' as I see it

Being a parent can be a mixture of complex emotions... it's wonderful, its horrible, it inflates your ego, yet daily makes you realize you understand absolutely nothing. Parenthood can make you happy, and also a big sap who cries at even comedies. I can't even watch the local news anymore without risk of tearing up over a story.

Kids have a knack for ruining intimate moments, waking up at 5 am on your day off, and puking all over you right before you walk out the door... yet one smile will melt your heart instantly. How can you stay frustrated with the innocent, trusting little face smiling up at you after they made a poopie in their diaper that also is on the carpet.

Parenthood is a sacrifice. I can only vacuum the floors when she's not home, and I have to blow-dry my hair with the door closed while she's downstairs so she doesn't get scared. She wakes up early just to go right back to sleep in bed with mommy and daddy, and somehow takes up more space than a full grown adult. Not to mention she hampers "me-time" to write, do my nails, shop, even take a shower some days.

But, parenthood is also rewarding. She "flaps" her arms and shrieks with excitement when mommy or daddy unexpectedly appear, and loves to give us sloppy kisses while squeezing our faces and sometimes slips in a little tongue. She's a superb cuddler and wakes up from every nap laughing in her crib. Even the most stressful situations and rainiest days have a little sunshine because of her happy, chubby face.

Aaaand I just heard what sounds like it will be a MAJOR diaper change.... Mommy's gotta go!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

If I wasn't blonde before, I sure am now

I did my first errands living in our new suburban neighborhood today. I can tell it's going to take me awhile before I can turn off my GPS when I go anywhere. I only traveled within a 5 to 6 mile radius, but everything looked the same and I really never had a clue where the heck I was.

I went to Jewel-Osco to get some necessities, including some steak (because it looked irresistible, and I decided I deserved it). I've obviously never visited this particular Jewel before, so I was a little lost at first where to find anything. I saw a women wearing a landyard with those little buttons all over it talking to another shopper, so I waited to ask her where I would find dairy products. After the other shopper thanked her for her help, I said 'excuse me if you're not busy, do you think you could point me to where I would find cheese?' She looked at me very confused, paused, and replied, 'I'm sorry, what?' ............. That's when it hit me: she was NOT an employee. I was able to laugh and explained I was confused because of her landyard; turns out she's a school teacher! She complimented me on my dress, and after parting ways I turned down the next isle, only to find the cheese and dairy jackpot! Whoops.

Reagan was with me of course, although sleeping most of the grocery portion of the trip. At the register she woke up and was smiling at me while we waited in line. I went to the front of the cart to start unloading things, and the little old lady behind me started coo-ing at her and tickling her toes. To my complete surprise, Reagan put out her bottom lip and burst into tears. She's always been very friendly with strangers. I said this to the women, and upon reflection I realize this probably made her feel 10 times worse than she did already for making a baby cry. The women must have apologized to me 5 times and now I realize I probably guilted her into it... Whoops again. Total fail.

My next destination was to Gymboree. I had purchased some clothes for Reagan there a few weeks ago only to notice once I got home that I bought EVERYTHING in the wrong size. I exchanged the items (they were even having a sale this time!) with the intention of only purchasing what I was getting back for my returns. After picking everything out I saw an adorable white headband with a purple tulle bow for $4 by the register. She was already wearing a headband but I loosely threw it over her head to check that it fit, and decided that for 4 bucks I'd get it. Once I was home I wanted to try on some of the clothes to double check they fit her right. Everything was perfect... except the damn headband! It was huge. Whoops... AGAIN! No idea how I didn't see that the first time.

I have the car because of the errands, so I still have to pick up Charles from the studio in 45 minutes... Hoping I don't have any more blonde moments between now and then! :-/

Reagan hanging out watching me blog... she has no idea her mom is a ditz.